Our ego was created to live in the world of opposites. We evaluate ourselves from this point of view: pain and pleasure, love, hate, joy, sorrow–all the different experiences in the opposites.
There comes a time in our evolution when we no longer need to experience them and desire to go beyond them. At that point we are ready to dismantle the existing ego. If that time has come for you, here is the action to take:
Become the observer and watch yourself in action.
Impersonalize this by pretending you are watching a movie. You are the director of this movie, and you are watching the actor play its part. After a few days start journaling what you are observing.
You will begin to see a pattern forming around your activities. Your Ego will not want to follow through with this unveiling, but your Soul is delighted that you are making this effort.