We are consciously assisting in the evolution of our soul when we become the active observer of our self. We cannot change anything until we can identify what needs to be changed. The active observer is the guardian and support system that watches over the personality self, and helps realign the behavior that is not working for us. So by taking responsibility for that aspect of our self, we are able to take huge spiritual steps forward on our journey of self discovery.
Action to take:
Observe your behavior. Then make a conscious effort to change that behavior. It takes effort but it has great rewards.